If there’s one thing you don’t have to tell your neighbors, it’s that you’re having a worship band rehearsal at your house. If they don’t see the drum set coming in the front door, they’ll hear it down the block when walking the dog.
And while they were walking and wondering what possessed us to do this, we were learning the first lessons of a jam session.
1. Follow the Leader
Band Leading for Beginners
It only takes two musicians to create a train wreck. Someone needs to be in charge of the tempo, the arrangement, and the feel. If that’s not you, then you need to listen closely and follow along. That is, if you can hear anything over the drum set.
2. Some People Are Really Talented
All the Moves
Some guys live for this moment. Everything in them comes alive when they play. Sometimes you feel like just listening and taking it all in. Don’t do it. Jump in there and play along. Support them. When they sound better, the whole band sounds better.
3. Stand and Deliver
Joshie's Big Solo
Don’t let that microphone go to waste. Don’t be shy, but don’t suck it into your face either. Just stand up, take a deep breath, and let us have it. The best training for this is to spend time with a four-year-old. He’ll show you how it’s done.
4. Advertise
The Reason We Sing
You can’t get an audience if nobody knows you’re playing. Start with a sign on the door. If that doesn’t work, you can always try Twitter.
5. Share the Love
Showing the Ropes
I Can Do That
Imitation is the highest form of flattery. If you are good, you may inspire others to follow in your footsteps. Allow time to show them the ropes. And the gift goes on. But…
6. Not Everyone Will Appreciate You
Not Listening
It may be hard to believe, but even after all your careful craftsmanship, diligent practice, and flamboyant showmanship, not everyone will appreciate your work. Some people just aren’t listening very closely. You may want to convince them, cajole them, even shake them back and forth. Resist the urge. Either they’ll be wooed your dulcet tones, or it’s just not for them. That’s OK.
7. Take a Bow
Showing Some Love
It’s OK to take credit for good work and show the audience you appreciate them. If you recognize their gratitude, it encourages them to come back for more. Maybe they’ll buy your album. And your t-shirts. And your behind-the-scenes DVD. Or maybe just feed you lunch after this.